@Timmers Chris got in conflict with a senior member. They exchanged not so nice messages but in the end they were able to fix it and apologize to one another. Just the same he was already decided on leaving the forum altogether.
I asked that question coz not all men who wants to visit doesnt mean theyre committed on each other already. It could be just knowing each other, sinced theres difference from real world to virtual.
Very true. It does take a real-world meet up to establish how compatible people are. Not only how genuine the man is but also the woman too of course. For me personally I think I had all my questions answered before I physically met in person but of course its not always the case.
@roaming-on I would've wanted Chris to answer that himself.. but I think you have your answer in the letter. I remember when one time during one of our convos he got all sour with me when I told him he could go to a speed dating event his friend had been bugging him about. He asked me "What am I to you?" "What are we?" "We are exclusive right?" For me, that time, I was kinda secure he wouldn't meet a girl like myself over there. But if he does, then it just tells me something, we're not meant to share anything other than friendship but of course when a guy likes you and you're someone special to him he would constantly think of ways to make you feel that. Even at a distance. Right now neither Chris nor I think or act like we're single. We have informed our parents about us. And we are looking forward to our times together in Cebu and Bohol.
Hmm okay,since you dont answered it directly. I know the answer now! I am sure both of you are so excited and cant wait for January to arrive. Just enjoy what you are having now and see how it goes.