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ANNULMENT LAWYER!

Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by Erica, Apr 6, 2016.

  1. Erica
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    Erica Member

    @CampelloChris, I do really want to go to England and fix the marriage I told him about it. He canceled the visa application two weeks ago I received my papers from british embassy with a refusal letter, and all his papers were delivered to England right to his address. In the letter it states that we met all requirements I could have had the visa the only reason for my refusal is that my husband canceled his support on the visa application. The pain us unbearable my whole family specially my mom cried.
    Also we don't have any support from ant of his friends and family they are all suggesting to get a divorce and celebrating our separation. It's really hard, he just doesn't want the wedding at all. As much as I want the marriage to work out, how? If my own husband doesn't want to.
    You are right, we just got married and he gave up that fast, no attempt on reconciliation on his part in was blocked on all his social media.
    If he wants this, I'll give it to him and hopefully both will find healing soon. I hope just one day, just one day he will realize what he turned his back from, I hope just one day he will realized that he wished he didn't listen at all to those people who said gave up the marriage, I hope that one day he will realized what he threw away. When that day comes I hope he won't cry in regret and will ask me what could have been if we work it out.
    As of now, I'm gathering myself. I asked for forgiveness, I told him I still love him, I guess we can't force a person cause they really want to they won't leave.
  2. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    Erica,
    I think you just have to get on with your life, as if there will be no further contact with your husband.
    He seems to have closed every door.
    He is many thousands of miles away from the Philippines and I doubt he will re-visit there again.

    Until he makes contact with you, you will have to carry on with your life in the Philippines.
    The hurt of a failed marriage will gradually disappear over time.

    The annulment is an issue you should put on the back burner for some time.
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  3. Mae Nic
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    Mae Nic New Member

    @Erica,Im sorry to hear what has happened to your marriage.
    If he didn't reply your message and he totally cut your communication it's no good then, because a piece of paper is worthless if the communication itself has lost forever. The annulment,it could cost you a lot. I understand you wanted to be free and you wanted to get your status back but as of now don't do anything about it as above you said you still love him and keeping the marriage could be "hope"to get you back together. I think don't pursue him give a time and hopefully he realized and pursue you back.
    Take care.
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  4. Melissa
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    Melissa Member

    Hello, Erica.

    I am so sorry about what happened to you, your husband, and your marriage. I am praying that you get the closure you need and deserve soon.

    May I recommend Mel Sta. Maria or his wife Ampy Sta. Maria? They were my professors in law school and are quite brilliant. Both specialize in Family Law. It's going to be costly but you may want to drop by the Ateneo Human Rights Center in the law school (Rockwell campus); I believe both are still active in that organization and they do pro bono work. Mel is the lawyer for TV5 and the current dean of FEU Law School. Ampy is a teacher at Ateneo Law School.
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