Okay OSS thanks for reminding me. I really appreciated it. Very complicated. How can I delete all of my messages here?
Please I am not telling you to go away, you do not need to do that. From what you have said, I am very worried for you, and I think you should really speak to someone with more authority than we have here soon. We here are just a bunch of people with varying experiences in life, but I am really concerned for you as the issues you raise seem more serious than we can really advise on.
Cherry baby.....di na uso ang battered wife ngayon kapatid ...kaya wag ka papayag na ginaganyan ka.. let your family know your situation ,you don't have to put up such abuse,my brain cells are reacting in the manner of building horns,your situation is so alarming...I feel so worried here girl.
Nakakatakot ang asawa mo Cherry Hindi ka kaya saktan niyan? Sira ata ang ulo niyan.. Naku. Tell your parents about your situation. I feel so so sad for you. It was so mean of him to make you fall in love with him and lead you on to think you'd have a better and happier life in the UK together. Please tell your family about how you are being treated. You need to.
Well seems like all we can do is to listen to your problem sissy...PRAY KA LANG sis.. magiging maayos din ang lahat..you are responsible to your own decision..May God guide you and bless you..GOD BLESS YOU ..
I hope you don't mind me saying this, Cherryblossom, but many things are said in arguments that are not what people really want or feel. Some people get angry but that is also what they don't want to show. As oss said, try to get professional help to save your marriage. You never know, perhaps down the road you both could be very happy together. Marriage can be very difficult at times but the struggles can make two people very close if they really work at it. If you try and there is no way forward then at least you will have no regrets as you have really tried.
Looks like the recent poster has gone through the thread, editing all posts and removing all the identifiable content - perhaps through fear that it will be seen? I hope that everything is OK with you Cherryblossom.
It would seem so and like you I hope all is okay. I do feel somewhat sorry for the girl and her situation, not good at all.