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Think positive:)everything happens for a reason:)

Discussion in 'General Chit Chat' started by simply_me, Aug 2, 2016.

  1. simply_me
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    No matter how hard but still think positive ,,there's a will there's is a way:)nothing is imposible and to be patient
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    I am an ordinary lady..am so sorry coz am still exploring how realy works for me the website..but anyway am glad that i found this website and am hoping that someone can give an advice or what we should do..my bf visit me last feb.2-29,2016 and return to uk march 2,2016...were doing great.sometimes it is sad to hear that girls just want foriegn guy for settlement of life.i am not generelizing..excuse me,,But i am not one of them..anyways...my boyfriend wants me to come to uk,,as we search online we found that one of the requirements is 18600 but sad to say coz my bf cannot reach that amount...its so hard longdistance relationship eventhough there is a technology, we skype everyday, i wake up always 3:a,m,,to talk to my special someone that makes me smiles everyday makes my heart happy..as in everyday .after done talk,,hurry to prepare to go to work,,,time management to show and express how special he is to me.even we are 7000 miles away..evrytime that we talk i always treasure it,,i see him,,i hear his voice it makes me/us going stronger to fight what we feel... we really want to together..But as what i've said nothing is imposible and to be patient:)
    I am realy hoping that someone could tell us what should or what is the other option do to meet the finacial requirements:)
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  3. Andy_Joana
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    Hi simply_me
    The 18,600 is what your boyfriend must earn each year not savings. There is lots of good advice here on the forum. I am thankful to all those who comment. Someone will point you in the direction here
    Good Luck...
  4. simply_me
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    Hello Andy_Joana
    Thanks..yes my bf cannot reach that 18600 yearly income..
    again thanks
  5. bigmac
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    bigmac Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    Can your boyfriend get a second job ?
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  6. simply_me
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    As of now he has only one job
  7. Andy_Joana
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    To be truthful I would give yourselves more time. Hopefully your bf can visit you in the phils a few more times and maybe look at changing his job with better pay in the mean time.
    I changed my job ready for when my wife hopefully gets her visa and comes to the UK.
    It will work out, just stay positive.
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  8. simply_me
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    my bf visit me already last feb.2-29,2016
    thank you so much:)
  9. graham59
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    A man has to be willing to put in the effort necessary to bring his partner here.

    £18,600 per annum (gross) salary is only just above the 'poverty line' here in the UK, so it's time for him to consider ways of increasing his income.

    Daydreaming is not good enough, sorry to say.
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  10. simply_me
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    Its ok:)i understand,,,,and thanks for the information:)

    have a nice day
    God bless
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  11. Andy_Joana
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    Don't get yourself down hearted. Its better to know the truth and then put positive actions into place.
    Only new here myself, but I find everyone is positive and supportive.
    Talk to your bf and start making plans for your future.

    I would visit my gf / wife every 12 weeks in the phils at huge costs and sacrifices. Being apart was terrible, but we've got through it. After nearly two and half years, hopefully she'll be with me for good.

    Take care
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    thanks you...yes we are starting plans for the future,,..thats why i came acrros this website..and get some idea where should we start..ive been many website but this is the one so far has information about....my bf will come back next year the same it would be four weeks he will be here...but the end of it we will be far each other again..but anyways he is willing to sacrifice our second option but yes he could aford to buy land and build house but it would be small budget well left of his savings...he will dont have work in here ...Honestly this situation that we are facing it is realy makes me more stronger to fight what we have...So i do always think positive....God is good all the time:)
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  13. Iainchelle
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    I sugest your bf to find another job that can support your visa application in the future. We have the same situation 2 years ago. He's worried he cant bring me in uk. He's in minimum wage. So he decided to find another job, sent his cv thru online. Fortunately he got the job. We got engaged october last year and got married january this year. Think positive @simply_me :)
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  14. Mae Nic
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    Hi @simply_me ,

    Your boyfriend can borrow money from his parents but do not take full amount in one go,do it in a period of a month. And also he can combine his salary and his saving but it must at least 6 months on account.

    Go visit the uk visa website and it will tell you how can calculate savings and salary to quality.

    Take care.
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    Timmers Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    Good if you have parents that would lend you £62,500 (required amount if no savings used) three times to cover the Fiancée visa + 2 x FLR(M)s

    My parents would have told be to bugger off and marry an English girl :D
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  16. Mae Nic
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    You absolutely right but hopefully they have a parents would lend them money to be able to meet financial requirements.
    Wish them luck.:like:
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  17. Mattecube
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    Mattecube face the sunshine so shadows fall behind you Trusted Member

    Does your boyfriend own a house, live at home or rent?
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    @Mae Nic
    Thanks,,later, i will tell my bf what about it..thank you ao much again:)he says that he has a small savings...but he couldnt reach that amount..i think 16000 yearly income he has
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    @Timmers
    thanks..:)yes,,i meet his parets last sunday july 31,2016 and i am so blessed even 7000 miles away his parents come to his house just to talk me on skype..and it is realy my plaesure to meet them not just the two of us or the relationship,, but it is also the family the acceptance of one another:)
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    @john townsend
    No,my bf rent a house

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