Hi guys..my new thread for this forum is concerning of how's been going our relationship with our partner... Please i hope everyone doesnt get me wrong but any opinion is welcome ofcourse as we do have our own understanding and feelings. I know were not perfect and totally have differences... but i just wondering how do you deal with that.as a married couple..when feel bored ,sad, lonely. how do you want to be approach by your partner?? specially to wifes like me.. ATTENTION WIFEY as girls get more TAMPO OR SULK in english word if im not mistaken . i want to know how's your partner approach u and do you like it i mean are you pleased with how he approach you. in husband i want to know when do you know when your wife feeling being TAMPO OR SULK or SAD.what you usually do ?? this question for all partner husband and wife....i dont want to be miss understood here. just like i said we do have our differences but one thing im sure is we want to be approach in the way that we want... as we pleased.. i guess everyone wants to feel so important and noticeable, feel safe and understandable..so pls i hope to hear from you there .. im a childish i guess..because i always feel sulk and sad...which is later on i need to solve on my own as i dont think my husband know how to deal with it..i dont want to think that im too hard too approach but maybe its true thats why i decided to make a thread like this and kow what its like into other couples out there.. goodnight everyone..:dream:
Being married to someone means that, more often than not, one has to make allowances. Relationships, in such close quarters like a marriage, do require lots of give and take, especially in the first couple of years, when different people from different backgrounds are trying to adjust to each other. The sexual chemistry does help a lot, but it is NOT the gel ultimate that fuses the union together. What does in my opinion, is the ability of both partners to communicate, share experiences, think and respond as one. To me TAMPO, is a showing of insecurity, where one party feels that it has been slighted, without taking into consideration, that maybe, in the other party culture or way of life, such perceived offense doesn't exist. And this behaviour can make communicating rather difficult in the long run, as it may create an athmosphere of suspicion and wariness, which shouldn't be there at all. Boredom, in that case can easily come to the forefront, and create splits and divisions in the relationship, casting the whole lot into doubt. It is early in the morning.... second chapter, later on...........
being married is not easy same as being single lolz...and every individual is unique and some says 7 years of itch usually occur in married life as well it is difficult yes but what is important is at the end of the day you both wake up smiling stays enlove and still together being a woman a wife and a mother is difficult indeed same with men today you are happy tomorrow you are sad later you are moody and mesirable and that is pretty normal just think we are all lucky that we still here together with the person we love.. and even how much you felt down depress, and sad..just think you are not alone... everyone is going through this stages
one thing I like about my Tommy is he is never a bore.. he has so much kwento :blah: :blah: :blah: I guess partners should do their part on keeping the relationship alive. Be creative. Do something diff'rent like, try bunjee diving or have a little trek on the woods etc As for the tampo, its quite normal for us filipinas, tell hubby that all we wanted is a bit more attention and more TLC and when the tampo is over, wow! romance is in the air again!
from the start of the relationship thats pretty normal .. wait for few years that you both togther and you will know exactly what i mean heheh .and tampo is not only for filipina mostly women has this moOds swings..men same at times lolLZ
Yes I think it's just normal to feel that sometimes as you already did most of the things together. More or less you are familiar with each others likes and dislikes. Honestly, it's the weather here that makes me feel bored much and makes me a bit moody at times. When you get to plan something nice the weather just won't let you enjoy
i had more tampo when i was just staying home and doing nothing... i got really, really bored when I first arrived here! i wa so used to a very busy and hectic lifestyle in Pinas and found UK to be so laidback... didn't have work for quite sometime and was begging for attention whenever hubby was around... maybe because I am all by myself practically the whole day... now that i have other things to do.. got a few friends.. got my own money now to spend... i am getting less tampo with hubby... i still have tampos though as most women do... but it wasn't as terrible as before.. because whenever i get bored, i just shop! hahaha... i guess it happens more if you're just on your own.. having a baby may do the trick!
Very interesting.. I myself have yet to face the tampo from a Filipina here in the UK, though later this year that might be a regular theme.. I guess boredom can and will set into every relationship, the seven year itch is often written and talked about. And all of those books and relationship Guru's always repeat the same mantra.. Communication, communication, communication..
I tell hubby to start the car and roam around I tell him I wanna see the nature aside from him! I believe that you feel happy being with friends sometimes. Without him huh!
thanks for your all replies...you all have a point and funny side of being truthfull...i like all the message though some of it its not working for me even its better for both of us.as i have to find a way to do that which is not so easy for me.. but thanks again guys.. to those just keep post your idea or message love to read it..
