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Its been a few months

Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by Wifey, Nov 23, 2016.

  1. uklove
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    uklove Active Member

    Wifey...you have touched the hearts of many of us here...
    I wish you a happy future..
    Please keep us updated.
    Good luck.
  2. Stupot10
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    Stupot10 Active Member

    Congratulations on the birth of your daughter. She is the most important part of your life now, forget the father as he doesn't deserve to be part of your or your daughters life. I'm sure in time you will find a man who is worthy of you and your love towards him. Don't give up hope as not all men are like him. You are a very beautiful lady with a big heart, there will be someone come into your life, probably when you least expect it.
  3. subseastu
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    subseastu I'm Bruce Wayne Lifetime Member

    These things take time, don't let it jade you
  4. tipipay
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    tipipay Active Member

    I also had the same reaction before. But here I am, very happy and inlove again.

    There are just some things that are beyond our control. You just have to move on. Life is full of surprises, don't let one mistake/problem ruin you totally.
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  5. Wifey
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    Thank you to everyone here,as of the moment im still in the process of coping as really i couldn't believe that the man i chose to be with me forever cheated on me its hard to be left pregnant and the only options you can do is just to be strong and have faith,i almost ended up asking my self how,why amd when i kept asking him before and the only explinations he can give to me is that feelings have changed!i was freaking mad at that kind of reason,some people should learn how to value committment,once you committ yourself learn how to embrace it for goodtimes and for worst!i really thought i was one of those lucky ladies not bcos he is british but bcos i thought we were on the same side!!!our relationship seems to be perfect we never fight there are some misunderstanding but we never let day pass without fixing it bcos its how it used to be i was in a total shocked super at his age?he should learn how to grow up and committ himself to a relationship what i couldn't afford is when the woman had the courage to message me that we filipino are fuc××ng charity cu×nt maybe some but not all,i never ever asked his bank accounts i dont know how much he earns bcos i told him it was his money bcoa he works for it and before we got married i told him im willing to sign any agreement that what he provided during the moment he was single is only his own!!im not making myself clean or whatsoever here but its the truth..
  6. Wifey
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    I wont let this situation ruin my life as i have ny family who kept reminding me that wverything happens for a reason
  7. Wifey
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    Wifey Member

    It takes time to heal completely and i dont even know when it will be as its really traumatic how could someone makes you believe in a happy ending and made u put into such aituations like this and then ran away like nothing happened i completely blocked him into my contact bcos i dont want to do anything with him,i tried so hard to talk to him for his child here but really he doesnt want to take any responsibility how selfish aomeone can be to do this
  8. Wifey
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    Wifey Member

    Sometimes i cant help not to cry
  9. Stupot10
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    Thats really not surprising, but look to your future and not the past, everything happens for a reason, your better finding out now than in several years time what he is like.
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  10. Wifey
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    Yeah indeed better to ignore rather than letting ur self into such situation like that and drag ur self to their nonesense issue,i have adjusted so much since the other woman is pregnant too!!but thats life i wanted to focus my 100 percent attentions to family and picking up myself as i need to survive for my little one
  11. Stupot10
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    Stupot10 Active Member

    Yeah that's the best thing you can do. Your family is the most important thing in your life.

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