I wish i have any options as i have tried so hard to deal with him in a proper way but then everytime i do he doesnt want to cooperate and sometimes he is calling me a f*****g t**ts which i thinknis really disrespectful..
Divorce procedures changed in England and Wales in 2007 - I know this as my divorce was one of the first to be heard under the new procedure which separates the divorce from the financial settlement. I divorced my (Russian) wife for unreasonable behaviour but was not required to supply a specific minimum number of examples and, from memory, I cited three. However the grounds for divorce, or party blamed, no longer affects the financial side, so erring partners can't be punished.
Let's be clear about this. Your husband is able to divorce you using an attorney and stating grounds, right away. The grounds might be false, but unless you legally fight it then no one is going to check. I suspect that the real reason that your husband wants to wait for two years is so that he can file the papers himself via an Internet firm (which often tend to allow the 2 year separation route) or perhaps because he feels that you wouldn't admit any blame - which as the innocent party would be quite justified.
He knows that im not going to take any blame maam as that what isntrue i didnt know that he was cheating untill he went back there and instantly doesnt want to come back and i was like crazy asking what was thenproblem i have all the evidences messages from him.pictures of him with his new woman
Things r too complicated,and i thought i could do anything about it but unfortunately i dont have any choice but really thank u to everyone who gave their ideas and moral support,thank u very much and god bless you all
That's up to you. I can see why you don't want to take blame but, if you don't, he cannot divorce you for 2 years. That's not him being awkward. He has no choice.
The feeling that the only choice u could do is to stay strong is the hardest part,i couldn't see any valid reason why could someone do things like this but being so selfish,stressing me from time to time and begging for my child needs just untill i gave birth but its too hard for h to do it is just being so selfish,one thing that marked into my head when he says to me that he was protecting his feeling that its hard to know that he will have a child here and couldnt do anything about it,i even responded before u think of urself think first the impact of what u have done to ur child,dont think of me but think of ur unborn baby and i wasnt asking for too much i was just asking to just help me atleast just atleast i gave birth as he doesnt left anything
The feeling that the only choice u could do is to stay strong is the hardest part,i couldn't see any valid reason why could someone do things like this but being so selfish,stressing me from time to time and begging for my child needs just untill i gave birth but its too hard for h to do it is just being so selfish,one thing that marked into my head when he says to me that he was protecting his feeling that its hard to know that he will have a child here and couldnt do anything about it,i even responded before u think of urself think first the impact of what u have done to ur child,dont think of me but think of ur unborn baby and i wasnt asking for too much i was just asking to just help me atleast just atleast i gave birth as he doesnt left anything
a very sad story to read. there is really no point in you starting divorce proceedings--it would have to be done in the UK--and would not be recognised in the philippines. he can divorce you--with your consent--here in the UK--after 2 years separation--and you can apply to have it recognised in the phils--as a "foreign " divorce. at least that way he will have to pay the costs.
I do not know if after two years were still be in contact as he is to abussive saying some offended words nasty words he doesnt know how to give atleast a respect to the mother of his child,he knows what is going on and who made a mistake he knows it very well i was expecting for him to do the decebt thing but what do i expect from him if he doesnt know how to value a relationship
I dont think theres a solution anymore sir asni have tried so hard to communicate nicely to him for the sake of my upcoming baby but it seems like he doesnt even care,thank u to everyone as people here seems to be so nice atleast i have said finally my feelings at the moment i am trying to be strong for my family as i dont want them to worry too much
I doubt there is much you can do from the R.P when he is over there in the UK cheating on you,especially as you cannot prove that he`s really the father of your child to be.. Keep telling him that this kid is his.. If he has a molecule of decency,respect or love for his own blood line he will at the least order a DNA test to prove it one way or the other.. Failing that,any legal charges here will need to be financed as you well know (in regards lawyers etc) but always remember that it remains an option.. If you can find evidence of them living together via FB pics etc, then you need to save this stuff..Save ANY correspondence to you from either him or her also..You never know..This could help you in any case you may decide to bring against him in the future here.. Here,one day you can file a Concubinage case against him..Charges that he will have to answer if he decides to visit here again..That could involve him being locked up BTW or being included in the Immigration blacklist etc.. Never forget though that the rules of KARMA are free and also works very well eventually... Dont forget also that its pretty hard for us here to judge him too much as we do not have his side of the story..(Always two sides right?)
Yeah there is always twonsides of the story,but either believe me or not i did everything to be a good wife he is really resourceful if one day he will find this forum i would answer any allegations and he can do a dna test as many as he wNted,i never cheated behind my husband's back he knows that,he knows it very well,we do talk upon he wakes up in the morning we do skype at night and i do let my skype open even im already asleep,he knows everything very well i dont even know where did he get his idea of denying that it was his,when he came home by first week of february i had my period 2nd week and really he is the one who ask me to get a pack of sanitary pad ots really ridiculous and escaping from the reality he is throwing me what he did but i have all the evidences i have pictures messages from them
I even ask him to come home when i gave birth but since the other woman is pregnant too i couldnt force him i was just ahead of month to this new woman,admitting to me that he was just protecting himself and his feelings that knowing that he has a baby in here and he cant be there is hard,seriously sir he would think himself first ratherthan thinking what is the right thing to do..
I'm getting sick to read the story. Made two women pregnant at the same time. He is a disgusting piece of ...... Much as I'd want to tell you let go of him, you NEED to swallow a bit of your pride and chase for the child support! I hope your family and friends will help you financially and emotionally. Don't let the problems affect your pregnancy. When is the baby due?
My duedate is till november 21,dont either understand as things r too complicated but then i adjsuted but they donexpect me to adjust for them from time to time
Online WifeyNew Member New My duedate is till november 21,dont either understand as things r too complicated but then i adjsuted but they donexpect me to adjust for them from time to time
Spare yourself from negativity. The last trimester of pregnancy is risky. Concentrate on your becoming. You can work that out after the baby is born. Everything will be beautiful in God's time.
