Filipino tradition of courting vs european man

Today for the first time we spoke through webcam. Suppose to do it last Sunday but she had to stay in hosptial with her family member... It is so unique, that patient's family is allowed to stay in hospital 24/7... It just shows how much respect they have for each other...
I have made my mind up already... I want to go there and meet her. Although it was just one conversation but it was co comfortable talking to her.. And she was over the moon too...
Before I will book flight I ask her to follow my rules of advices that were given to me by members. I hope she will respect them