Hi all, before I post, I wanted to ask if it is ok to ask for a tagalog-english translation here, or in any other of these subforums? Having bit of a doubt regarding my girlfriends honesty, and would like to know how to interpret a couple of short discussions I happened to stumble upon...Online translations are not reliable enough, so I would need a "real" translation. If it's not ok then please let me know, I don't want to upset anyone. Davide
Hi Davide and welcome. I'm sure we can help. If the conversation is of a sensitive nature (assuming the online translation presumes that to be the case) you're quite welcome to PM (private message) if you so desire.
Hi ! Thanks, no it's not that sensitive, but indeed very important for me Here we go, two separate short discussions, I really appreciate if you can help me interpret this... I do understand that A is very concerned about me getting to see that account, but I'd like to know if it says here who actually knows the pwd. I understand it a bit like they are fooling me to think that B is the only one who knows it, but maybe I'm wrong. A: Nakakyamot Tita si David Kinukuwa niya passwords B: Y? A: Sabi KO pinaltan Mona password at diko na alam Hindi maari niya mabuksan un Patay ako Huhu Kailangan madelete Napapagod nako Makipag talo sa kanya B: Hindi nga mabura A: About this Oongapo E Ang gusto niya siya ang mag bura at ibigay ang password B: Wagyu A: Ano Po? Diniya pede malamn kunwari sayo nayan Hehe B: Sabihin mo account ko to kya ako magpapalit password and i will not give it to you anymore, ever A: Ok po Ok tita tnx ----- A: Kc parepareho natyo taken at monitor pati ako bf ko Okok sige saan C: oo aba lalo ako tanong mo kaya ash bantay sarado haha kahit jan sa mabitac na way A: Ako din sobra bantay sarado ako lahat ng account password KO alam bf KO haha C: ako din haha kaya dlete ko na to mamaya gamit nya e nag online un dito sa fb ko
Something tells me that she is terribly reluctant in sharing passwords. Whilst I understand that it is a totally private thing, one must wait until it is offered voluntarily, rather than asked for or demanded as some kind of proof. The only reasons that I am familiar with my wife's passwords, is that we have a joint bank account and she is terrible at remembering stuff, and if she writes it down somewhere, she forgets where she has written it on or where she has hidden it... For now, I would be patient, and if it is a recent LDR you have embarked on, do not part with any money, regardless of what matter of life or death excuse turns up........ Have you met personally yet??? Have you actually spent time together..?
Hi david, a quick translation of the conversation: She is mad or irritated that you want the password over certain account (probably an email?). She further said that she cant delete some conversations. The other party further said to insist that its her account and you shouldn't have access to it.
Thank you guys ! Can I please have a more exact translation on these sentences? Sabi KO pinaltan Mona password at diko na alam Hindi maari niya mabuksan un Patay ako Diniya pede malamn kunwari sayo nayan Sabihin mo account ko to kya ako magpapalit password and i will not give it to you anymore, ever Ako din sobra bantay sarado ako lahat ng account password KO alam bf KO haha Yes....long time relationship which was on hold for a while, but now we're back together with quite a few questions left open...
A: Irritating. Tita it's David, he wants to know the password B: Why? A: I told him you changed the password and I don't know it anymore. He shouldn't open it or I'm dead. It should be deleted. I'm tired arguing with him. B: It can't be deleted. A: That's why he wants to delete it himself and he wants me to give the password. B: Wagyu (I think it's typo) A: What? He shouldn't know it. Just pretend that's yours already hehe. B: Tell him it's my account and I will change the password and I will not give it to you anymore, ever. A: Okay thanks Tita. --- A: We're both taken and our boyfriend always keeps an eye to us (always monitored) C: Exactly, even me I'm closely monitored haha A: Me too I'm very much monitored he knows all my account and my password C: Me too haha that's why I'll delete this later coz he will use this Not very much accurate but that's the thought of the conversation.
Well.......... If a fair amount of water traveled under "that" bridge, I wouldn't bother enquire about it....... I am sure she is not asking you to say what went on with you while this relationship was on "hold".......... I understand your need to want to know, pretty macho kind of thing, slightly bordering on the posessiveness, but I feel you are intruding in her private zone, and she resents the doubts, wether founded or not. Benefit of the doubt and trust go a long way. If she wants to make you privy to it, it is her choice and must be respected. If you are not prepared for it, I suggest you move on. my two pence
She showed part of these FB discussions to me herself, using my laptop. The page was then left open and later in the evening I scrolled up a bit in the discussion and got interested in these parts of it. And in response to Aromulus, you have a good point there. She was, however, recently caught chatting on this skype account when she thought I was asleep. She then logged quickly out and refused to tell me who she was chatting with. Later she claimed she doesn't know the password anymore and so on. She was, again, using that account a few days later so I do know that's not exactly true... But yes, I guess this story is over, clearly someone of more interest than me there so I better step aside. So very sad because I really do love this woman, but with lack of trust it just won't work. Thanks again everyone for your help !
Plenty of fish in the ocean. Sorry about your situation. Hope you find the right woman for you. Someone you can fully trust
If the trust is gone, so is the relationship, as far as I'm concerned. We must also try not to CONTROL our partners. Rarely has a happy ending.