Hello again..thank you for ur answer to my guestion...i stop it this afternoon for him to buy the house.i felt is been to quick and i got scared to have that commitment.i coudnt let him trow with it and sell his flat and buy the house for me..i coudnt let him live in a 5 bedroom house alone if its happen that i wont move in to him before the yr ends..i needed more time to think ..but thank u very much for the advice..now i know what the laws here..hes a good man and i dont want to put him in a situation to lost his flat and let him live in a big house alone..he did lost 700 sterling for the survey....i guees that house was not meant for us yet...we will try to tent a 4 rooms flat instead and when im 100%ready to start my life in bourmouth we will find our house... Thanks again
Hi again.. Thank you for your reply.I stop him to buy the house this afternoon..He did lost a 700 stirling for the survey but better that than to lost his flat because of buying the 5 bedrooms house.I was scared is been quick for me and i am not ready yet to move out from sweden...i coudnt let him live there in a big house alone if is happen that it take time for me to move to bourmouth...but i appriciet your respons thank you..now we will find a 4 bedroomsflat to rent and when im 100%sure that i move out from sweden then we will find our house...the house is no mortgage...he is a good man and i just coudnt let him buy the house when i knew i was not ready yet.. Thank u again..
Hi @Mutya , that's a really brave and thoughtful decision to make . I'm sure your boyfriend will understand , even if he is disappointed right now . You have proved to him , and others , that you are a very caring person , who puts his welfare before your own , and he is lucky to have a girl like you . Give yourself a little more time to think about everything , so you will be happy and confident you are making the right decision for you both . I'm sure everything will work out in the end . Good luck to you both .
Hello again..thank you..that u undetstand why i needed to do it..but unfurtunately he didint undetstood. He thought that i dont want to move to him because i didint want him to buy the house.. Sometimes i dont understand men either they think woman are after their money or they think the feelings is not enough.. Thank u..
