Rayna.

I presume that from time to time, you visit here, just to check if anybody is talking about you... I know for a fact that other people do, so I doubt you will be the exception...
No need to worry, if we have something to say to you, we will do it directly, in the open.
Which brings me to try to explain to you a few home truths, which your virtual "boyfriend" may have, accidentally on purpose, omitted from his resume'...

For all I know, you seem to be complicit in the "virtual" betrayal of a good and faithful woman, which for the past 10 years or more, has been tending to most needs of her disabled husband.
Duties which she carried out because of real love and dedication and as I am aware of, for no financial gain.
On the other hand, the husband, has been treating his wife with more disrespect every day, like a servant and maybe a sexual object, mentally abusing her and basically belittling her at every stage... Especially at driving test times.... No wonder that to her few friends, she seem to lack confidence, ambition and general happiness.
She pushed his wheelchair on the concourses of many airports, often carrying his luggage as well, without many complaints, she cooked for him, washed and ironed his clothes, supplied coffee on demand, and erroneously as it appears to be now, placed him on a pedestal.... For years and years, she lived with him, in a place in the countryside, where public transport is hit and miss... A few miles from a country market town. with no social life at all. The few real friends, used to travel for hours to go and visit her, because they didn't go there for the husband. Even allowing for an eventual move to Liverpool, I severely doubt you will find it to your liking... Makati, it definitively isn't.
And as for him, coming to live in the Philippines...??? Not a chance.... Obviously there are other places in the world you could go to, but he couldn't stay long there, as he would have to pay for all his medical treatments... Whereas it would be free if living in the UK.........
Some of the lies....
The wife did not know of a thread titled "A joint statement"
The wife never opened a facebook account... It was done by him, to be able to probably spy on her friends, envisaging a banning spree on his site... Which duly happened...
A few PM " allegedly" sent by the wife to a member or two, are not from her.... Just look at the spelling and grammar.... If they haven't been deleted yet, like all the threads he doesn't like to give a truthful answer to.

I am not writing this note out of personal bitterness or hate, towards you, because I am far above it.
I am writing this to warn you about the emotional disappointments you will feel if you get too far into this farce of a relationship. Because you have to think very hard on the fact... If he treated his wife in such a shabby way, what stops him from doing it to you in a few years time, when you have exhausted your usefulness to him...?
After all.. In his own words a long while ago, "If a woman betrayed once, she will do it again".... So as they say... What's good for the goose is good for the gander, then...?

I know very well, that it takes two to tango, and relationships, marriages, sometime do not survive the test of time, and flounder, slowly. So I wouldn't have had a bone to pick, if things had taken their natural course and the split would have been amicable and above board.
But unfortunately, he didn't think along the lines of fair play, but choose to be secretive and hurtful. He didn't tell her anything until he had all his corners covered by a web of lies.

As far as I know, Rayna, you are plan"B" or even plan "C", as plan "A" told him to get lost, because he was a married man.... And this info, comes from one of his bum licking associates, confirmed by another source.
I think it is fair to tell you, that you were not his first choice .....

Just be careful, and think about the choices you make, you are just a fly in his website... easy prey.
I am sure that once I finish this, some other things will come to mind, but I suppose the most of what I wanted to tell you is here.

I don't crucify you for it, nor I think, anybody else here would either, you are just as innocent as his wife in all this, and being taken for an emotional ride, which one day, you may regret to have embarked on.
"Live long and prosper"

Rayna's an attractive younger woman. And not an idiot! I would suspect either she knows Keith like we don't, or she has a back up plan that does not involve Keith.

Either way, Ping has been heartbroken by this whole affair and is the victim here. So my hope is that no matter what, she moves on with her life and gets something better than a crippled scouser:drama:

She may well have several plans in place, youth and intelligence, but she will be no match for the wily scouse fox in the Macchiavelli stakes... Someone that elevated betrayal to an art form...
And Wether she has ulterior motives or not, it isn't really so important as the realizing that the UK is not paved with gold and strewn with rose petals...

Maybe someone should remind Rayna about Keith's deliberate lies and deception on the other forum. He stated on the forum that his health is failing, he hasn't got long to go, blah, blah, but hey, its ok, he'll dump his loyal and faithful wife of 10 years and go get a younger replacement the other side of the world. Seems a bit barmy if you ask me - surely if your health is failing, the last thing to do is going travelling to the other side of the world? Add to that, the expense of all that travelling, sorting out visas and general expense involved in a LDR, all while his health is failing.

Oh, this forum will always be a more open and free forum And if I ever disagree with someone, then I won't be banning them... Debating the ifs, buts and what nots perhaps, but there will be no banning going on here unless its really needed (like against spammers).