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Discussion in 'General Chit Chat' started by Balot, Mar 15, 2011.

  1. Balot
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    Balot Active Member Lifetime Member

    i know am a boring person even the hubby say:( it but i still get annoy and hurt lolz and i know im nobody but a plain house wife:) i can only be myself and cant pretend to be someone which am not :(
    Last edited: Mar 15, 2011
  2. Micawber
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    Micawber Renowned Lifetime Member

    Hey, Balot, that's enough of that thinking.
    You should always be yourself and you should never try to be someone or something that just not you.

    The posts you make here on this forum show a passion, intelligence and a great sense of humour.

    If one person says you are boring, it doesn't make it true about you.
    It just means that for that one person, you may need to try something different.
    Whatever you create for one person might seem boring for them, but for other people the very same thing might be fascinating.
    Now I'm not making any sense ............... as usual :D

    C'mon Balot tell us more about those Coconut tree grubs
    How about telling us about Tamilok (mangrove worm) Mmmmmm

    Post whatever makes you happy
  3. Balot
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    Balot Active Member Lifetime Member

    i understand of what you are trying to say Micawber thanks for cheering me up but am feeling really worthless:(
  4. Micawber
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    Micawber Renowned Lifetime Member

    You think a housewife is worthless? No way.
    Do you have some friends nearby for chika and funtimes?
  5. Balot
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    Balot Active Member Lifetime Member

    nope i dont have sadly..feeling so low and useless:(
  6. Micawber
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    Micawber Renowned Lifetime Member

    I think you're just going thru a 'bad patch'
    It's hard work being a housewife and mother, especially if you are maybe homesick and/or if you have limited access to fellow countrywomen.
    I really understand. Please take care of yourself.
    I fully understand, I spent 33 years travelling around the world always alone. No one to share. When you first live somewhere new it's really difficult to make contact with like minded people, really difficult to find someone to talk with and share life. But the world is not so hostile, you can find friends over time then settle a little.
    Wish I was closer to your area, but I'm so far ....
    I will speak with my wife again tonight to make contact. I will PM you with her phone number and details ..... just wait there. God Bless
  7. Balot
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    Balot Active Member Lifetime Member

    is your wife working Micawber? as me i cnt as of the moment as i got children and very young at age to be left over :(
  8. Micawber
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    Micawber Renowned Lifetime Member

    Balot, I sent you PM with my wife's name and mobile number please give a call tonight. Yes she is working as a carer, that's why better to call just now. She works mornings only.
    Please do it Balot she is waiting now.........................
  9. Micawber
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    Micawber Renowned Lifetime Member

    Balot, please contact to my wife. She is waiting. Just she wants to hear you and she will call back right away. Have to be careful of online contacts, you know right ?
    She's still waiting. Please make a short contact. Her number may change with no contact. God Bless, we are good people, you will see.
  10. Micawber
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    Micawber Renowned Lifetime Member

    Hey Balot, what happened?
  11. KeithAngel
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    KeithAngel 2063 Lifetime Member

    My bet is soap on the telly:D
  12. Balot
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    Balot Active Member Lifetime Member

    excuse me ..i better watch telly than reading your post lolz
  13. Micawber
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    Micawber Renowned Lifetime Member

    Still waiting Balot. :wave:
    Whats the problem? You don't trust my asawa? C'mon Balot you have to risk something sometime to have happiness. :grouphug:
  14. Balot
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    Balot Active Member Lifetime Member

    i know this naughyt kitkit:( :) annoys me lolz..i trust you guys and know u are all good fellow:like: i will call i swear:)
  15. Micawber
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    Micawber Renowned Lifetime Member

    It's up to you.
    No problem.
    Just my wife will now be angry to me.
    je je je ?
  16. yuna
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    yuna Cat Lover Staff Member

    you, boring and worthless? nah! that is so not true ate balot! cheer up! dont let these negativities affect you.. go out of town, have fun, you deserve it! :grouphug::grouphug:

    No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. (Eleanor Roosevelt)
  17. Kuya
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    Kuya The Geeky One Staff Member

    Balot, you should hook up with Peter's wife if for nothing than a phone call. The whole reason for this website is for support and nobody needs it more than Filipinas who are new to the UK who know nobody and need to meet fellow Pinays for chit chats like they did back home.

    I mean, I set this site up after the exodus from Filipino UK when it became clear that Filipino women on that site were being disrespected by the admin (amongst others) and a few others on there who view their wives as little more than Her indoors:( And can be noted by the way the refer to Pinays in a group (the Pinay gossip machine). And also, when Joy joins me here in the UK, I will want her to meet up with fellow Filipinas as I know she is going to miss her lifestyle where she will spend nights at a Karaoke with the girls, or a trip to the waterfalls with her cousins... And I don't want her stuck in the house reliant on me alone when she does get here...

    Hence the need to socialise.. And this forum is simply another form of social media (like Facebook). So, join groups, join forums and get emails and phone numbers. Hook up with local women and go shopping and whatever you like to do with your time. :like:
  18. Balot
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    Balot Active Member Lifetime Member

    thanks for the inspiring words Kuya:)..am here and i will call MIcawber wife when am ready..and so good to know that there are people here that concerns to the feeling of others:like:
  19. Balot
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    Balot Active Member Lifetime Member

    thanks Yuna:grouphug:..ill be ok soon :) just feeling really low..sometimes we as woman have ups and down same with men i think:)
  20. Balot
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    Balot Active Member Lifetime Member

    Micawber am just finding time to call your wife i wasnt able to call her tonight but in the next days i will please bear with me tell your wife please ..thanks:)

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