I think she might be having a struggle with her mental health as her dads not well at all and her family are trying to deal with all the issues coming up.This is new information to me so beginning to understand.
Thanks everyone for the advice and comments.The very fact that you give your time to help people with issues on this site proves you are good people with good intentions.I have enough information now to help me navigate this rocky patch so I will leave you all in peace.I did find it interesting that peoples own experiences cause emotional projection or tranference of their own lived experience which at times could be funny and at times harsh ,but I take both gladly after all beauty is truth and truth beauty.I wish you all the very best in your future lives. Best regards David.