Hi, Sorry to hear that it did not work. The relationships that work are the ones where the UK person goes to the Philippines to start everything moving in the right direction. All the best.
Read the whole of your old thread again "Nick" but a good place for everyone else to start is at Graham's post here. (September 2016) Split up I confess I do not know details but reading iHeartJa's comments in this thread it sounds a lot like the same old story from this member, I am not sure but I seem to remember an even earlier revelation of this kind from even further back with either this guy or at the very least one with a very similar handle and picture.
He hid about his disability and I got sooooo upset that he couldn't go to Hong Kong. He was afraid that I may not be able to accept him because of that. (I can't disclose anything about his disability as respect to him) The situation gives me the idea to visit him first. The ECO said my sponsor, Nick, largely use public fund, he's not convinced that Nick could support me without using public fund. Then it follows.. The ECO was not convinced that I have genuine relationship with the sponsor given that I have not met him yet (in person).
Hi iHeartJa! Happy holidays to you! I am hoping your good and enjoying the season,even it didnt went well and the visa got denied.Maybe not the right time yet! Are you still in contact with him? I feel quite sad about what happened..but I believed theres a reason why it happened..
Greetings roaming-on! Thank you. I hope you're having a good time too I am not actually sad as I have things going on my career hehe. Maybe that's why it's not meant to travel this time. We are still good. He said he'll see if he could extend his working hours and find another job to save more. I will be busy in the coming months too due to change of career so going to the UK is not my priority now.
Genuine dating rule #1: Be upfront and honest from the outset or else the relationship is doomed for failure. Good luck young lady. Man up Nick!
Yes agree with HaloHalo, and good luck in the future HeartJa. Internet can be be a great help for initial finding and initial contact , but needs to be followed up asap with face to face meeting ,before emotional commitment . I've read of several cases of Filipinas chatting online , and waiting sometimes years for a man who never actually arrives, and eventually ends the online "relationship "
My first message to Melody was 'fb me', which she figured out meant facebook me. She sent a friend request, which meant that we were able to snoop our way through each other's facebook posts and photos. I'd recommend it as an exercise in honesty. Unless of course your facebook photos have these little pics to explain away... I figured that if she was going to get to know the real me, she'd better understand that things get a bit rowdy sometimes.
Thank you OTT! I agree with Halo Halo as well. It was not easy and I went through a process before giving him another chance. I admit it was hard. But God has His way of keeping me busy and giving me wisdom not to put my whole heart on chatting online until I met the guy face to face. There was a time too, in the past, that the British guy arrived in Pinas but I did not show up to meet him because I found out he's going to meet some girls too. I have my own way of knowing the truth. Like what oss mentioned on this thread. I personally heard the side of that girl. Yes we are on facebook too, and I have met his parents, talked to his mum several times, some family members,friend on video chat.
All but the first photo were of various nights of debauchery at Browns Bar in Coveta Fuma, near to where I lived at the time. The rather over-enthusiastic stool dancing was during a rendition of Sunshine Mountain on Karaoke night. What can I say? The music, the moonlight, the Jack and Coke....
