How much time do/did you spend online with your mahal?

for the the year and half weve been away before almost everyday and every hour after he comes from work even how tired he is and if he fails..i will call his phone and tell to get online lolz..

everyday as many hours as we can if there were no tampo ... skype while we were both at work.. called him during breaks. then after work ym. i used to work as a marketing analyst for a british company, so my hours of work was same as his...

None, we didn't have a PC then. we used a pen and paper to communicate and the phone.
how can i vote, I don't have any options

It started off as "as many hours as possible every day" then about 30 mins phone every day, then I lived in the Philippines for a year, then ... "about 1 hour every day". Now she lives here, we never talk LOL

Tom.

We used to talk everyday for as long as we can....and after talking we e-mail each other every day.I still got them on my email add till this very day...Plus the letters we sent on the post to one another before.

I used to remember we don't talk for a week everytime we had fall off.
Now were separated.

thats what we call it eljean gulong nang palad..ang buhay parang gulong minsan sa ilalim minsan sa baba..

Balot,

Yes you are not right, relationship is a lot of work and just one misunderstand can actually lead to communication breakdown.

communication is majoy factor in relationship it can ruin you both if you cant fix it in time..isa na ako nyan hehehe...but am adjusting pero at times mahirap rin ..struggling kung minsan..kaya lang yan ang buhay eh..a cycle of life hat we ned to get through same with everybody else:vhappy:

I should have read the whole question as I thought it was asking how long I spent in general online everyday opps

Intresting one like Jim said in the time he was communicating with his mahal pen and paper were most often used. Only in the early 2000's SMS messages were the most easiest way to communicate or phone calls. While ym and msn were king but with long emails for those time when the other was offline.

I think now like one couple I know of we would technically be in contact 24/7 with pc's left on while sleeping which all sounds a bit to much possibly to me. I think as we all know once living together being in contact 24/7 can lead to lack of "own space" and sometimes lack of things to talk about

The difference in time zones make it hard for us to chat for a long while, however, we make it a point to chat everyday. Also, I use snail mail to make things interesting. I'm sure you guys get mundane discussions if you're talking everyday, so I like to give time in making a letter. That's mushy, but it's nice.

Edit: If there's a blackout, I text or call him. That's quite expensive, but... but nothing.

of course we want to be around that one person that makes our life goes round as much as we want, kung pwede nga hanggang forever na kyo magkasama. yung tipong hindi na mapaghiwalay,..

there are things an kelangan i consider pag dating sa mga ganyang bagay, unang una yung time, shempre kelangan din magwork, never expect na lhat ng oras ng isang tao nasayo,
pngalawa, yung personality ng isang tao malay mo hindi lang talga sha sanay sa palaging magkasama, ot clinggy stuffs,

the thing is ndi naman namememasure ang love ng isang tao dahil sa time, pag more time on you mas mahal ka, pag less hindi ka na agad mahal. somethings are just like that, kelangan lang ng understandings,,


sabi nga, "just because i don't have time to be wtih you doesn't mean that i don't love you"


hahaha.

I certainly don't talk to my Mahal every day - usually once or twice a week and for less than one hour. She works around 12 hours each day - 7 days each week - and no public holidays. The only time we get a chance to chat is when she comes onto YouTube just after finishing work (around 10pm her time). We have never really had and arguments.

We all have the same amount of time available to us every day.
When anyone says 'I didn't have time' to call you or 'I just ran out of time', what they really mean to say is, that although they had the time, they just didn't give that task a high enough priority.

Time management is all about prioritisation.

Those are being saved.