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Discussion in 'Introduce Yourself' started by Steverob, Aug 23, 2015.

  1. Steverob
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    Steverob New Member

    Hello to all here,
    I'm Steve, and invite you to read.
    We met on the Internet in nov 2013,
    I was captivated, and we quickly became good friends and more.
    Rushing home from work to chat was every day's highlight
    And days turned to weeks and weeks to months,
    And we felt at ease with each other,loved each other,dreamed and made plans.
    In May 2014 I was due to fly out meet my love and the family,
    All was planned,
    On the morning if the flight I slipped in the bath and ended in hospital, missed the flight and we were both desolated.
    Two weeks later I flew out,
    It was magical, perfect,
    My love was stunning,
    The family welcomed me into their home and lives so seamlessly, their hospitality was incredible and made me realise what we lack at home .
    We planned to marry,after the best time of my life in makati
    Subic and dinalupihan.
    Sad farewells at Nino aquoy
    As they saw me safely away.
    I returned in July 2014, where
    We obtained our cert of no impediment , and posted our intention to marry at the British embassy.
    We were married 20 days later by a consular official in the British embassy.
    We applied for a visa, it was refused, such a kick to the stomach I never experienced before.
    We applied again, this time for full settlement visa,5 weeks later it was refused.
    We applied again using a professional and well known visa company based in Manila
    5 weeks later it was refused
    Citing my salary as insufficient.
    Looking at my salary and knowing I exceeded the minimum financial requirement of £18,600 by some measure
    Both the visa company and ourselves were fuming and all were beginning to lose hope.
    I could tell in my loves voice
    The feeling of hopelessness creep in.
    The ceremony in the embassy was very cold and businesslike
    And although classed as British soil carried no weight at all.
    We married again in a wonderful ceremony in Bataan
    120 guests friends and family
    Photographers, a band,
    Silver service , and a ballroom decorated like an ice cavern.
    A pre nup photo shoot and a professional wedding photo shoot , all arranged by my love.

    So angry about the visa refusal and the clear errors made by the Eco I took matters into my own hands.
    I appealed to the immigration tribunal in Leicester, even though that might take months.

    I contacted the home office via their complaints procedure page on their website , that may take weeks.

    I contacted my local mp and emailed the obvious errors in the ecos deliberations
    I threw myself on her mercy
    Appealed to her sense of fair play, appealed to her as a mother and as a doctor, as she is both,
    Within three days, her secretary mailed me from the house of commons,
    She had contacted the home office and requested they pull out file at the manilla hub as it was obvious to her that an error had been made by this particular eco.
    An ecm reviewed our application and admitted the error, the home office instructed them to reverse the decision, and 4 days later my love received our visa.

    The cost has been almost financially crippling, I'm a working man, in the long months before the manilla hub was shown for what it is, I supported my love financially each week, the fees for visa applications, a visa company,
    An appeal, two Tb tests, an English course, transport,etc etc
    Means I will bear the cost for some time to come.
    Our visa was issued just prior to the change in law regarding the 4 hour seminar and passport sticker, so we were unaware.
    After this final disappointment
    My love arrives this Wednesday coming.

    So,
    Never give up, bear any cost,
    Eat disappointment as though it were your favourite meal,
    Keep fixed in your mind the look on your loves face when you married her,
    Because,
    She is so worth it.
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  2. marbe A.
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    marbe A. Member

    Oh thats so lovely congrats to you both.. Even the worst circumtances, being strong together and a lot of patient everything is worth in the end..
  3. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    Hi and :welcome: here, Steve.

    Good on you for persevering with an injustice to a successful outcome. :like:

    The founder of this forum Kuya (Sean), who sadly passed away, also fought his corner to get a spousal visa for his wife.

    Is your wife arriving by herself on Wednesday?
    At least she doesn't need winter clothes at this time of year!

    This week will be very special for both of you. ;)
    Last edited: Aug 23, 2015
  4. Aromulus
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    Aromulus The Don Staff Member

    Heck of a journey............

    Welcome aboard !!!!!!!!!
  5. Timmers
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    Timmers Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    You made it in the end Steverob, well done, thank you for sharing your story with us :)
  6. Dave_E
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    Dave_E Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    Spend more time
    Make it rhyme.

    :lol:
  7. Mattecube
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    Mattecube face the sunshine so shadows fall behind you Trusted Member

    Well done and very best wishes for your futures
  8. deanobeano
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    deanobeano Active Member

    Congrats Steverob and welcome mate.
  9. Steverob
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    Steverob New Member

    Many thanks to all of you for your kind words and thoughts.
    Special thanks to Dr Sarah wolaston
    Mp for totnes in Devon ,
    Without whose help, with nothing to gain personally, finally righted a wrong.

    Yes , my baby arrives on her own,
    On Wednesday, I know she will be shattered by the travelling,
    2 hours to manilla, 3 hour wait, 14 hour flight,and 3 hours drive to home
    She really is a wonderful person,
    And I have no memory of what life was like before we met,so weird.

    Things will be tough for a while,
    But at least we will be together
    And we are both so looking forward.

    We should have had the two previous visas, and as I delved deeper into the work of ecos at the manilla hub
    I was amazed at the way applications are processed.
    For instance the manilla hub deals with applications from most of South East Asia, not just the Philippines.
    under the freedom of information act
    As a direct request to the home office,
    Concerning the manilla hub,
    I obtained Eco staffing levels,
    Eco working hours
    Eco break schedules
    Number of applications average per month
    From this I deduced,
    The amount of time an Eco spends on each application amounts to 5.5
    Minutes........!!!
    Providing no one is sick off work, on holiday, in the rest room, or having a bad day.
    Ecm's do not review ecos decisions on visa applications,
    And the error in our case where the Eco calculated net pay, but then stated in the refusal it was gross pay,
    Went unseen, unchecked,and with no minimum standard of quality control applied.
    No Eco or ecm signs their name
    There is no way to contact them directly
    They are protected by anonymity
    And thus their mistakes, which are made
    Are likely repeated without consequence.

    But that's another story ...........

    we are so very happy we came out of
    The other end, together.......

    Once again
    Many many thanks for your kind words and thoughts,and your warm welcome
    So looking forward now......

    Steve
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  10. Steverob
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    Steverob New Member

    Dave e

    Why rhyme?
    No point....... No time......
    Its allready sublime.
  11. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    How much did you pay for visa applications?

    When you appealed and won, did you receive compensation for their mistakes?
  12. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    5.5 minutes for an ECO to review an application.

    Makes us wonder why some people send hundreds of documents which they clearly will not be able to process :eek::confused:
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    yuna Cat Lover Staff Member

    Welcome here :)
  14. bigmac
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    bigmac Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    welcome Steverob :welcome::welcome::welcome::welcome::welcome::welcome:

    thanx for sharing your story--very useful info.
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    Howerd Well-Known Member Trusted Member Lifetime Member

    @Steverob that is a very interesting story. It must have been a very difficult year for you both. What I found of great interest is the 5.5 minutes spent as an average on each visa application and the lengths you went to to determine that. Maybe you could post here the correspondence (suitably anonymised) under the Freedom of Information Act. It also looks that backing up an appeal by contact with your MP is also a good idea, it does seem to speed up the process.

    However, one thing concerns me - you mention a 4 hour seminar and passport sticker being introduced just after the visa application. It appears you may be getting muddled up between the new UK 30 Vignette sticker in the passport (which requires no seminar) and the Commission on Filipinos Overseas (CFO) seminar which, upon completion, results in a sticker in your passport. The CFO seminar and CFO sticker requirement has existed for many years.

    Can you confirm that your wife has taken the CFO Seminar and has the CFO sticker in her passport? Without the CFO sticker in her passport, the Philippines authorities will not allow her to leave the country.
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    Hi all
    The first visa application was a visitors visa, and if memory serves was around £300
    It was our first visa application, we were both naive regarding which visa to apply for, and in fairness to the manilla hub
    Was not what it should have been,
    so no hard feelings on that one.

    The next visa applications cost around £800 each x 3
    With the last one also costing an additional £600 , again if memory serves, as health care surcharge.

    I forget what the two tb tests cost
    Or how much the English certificate
    Was, as all documentation is still with my wife, and arriving with her shortly.

    The appeal to the tribunal was £170
    And discontinued by me after a week or so as the visa was issued, this is also non refundable.
    I have not asked to be compensated because I do not wish to rock the boat
    When my love finally arrives, with feet on the ground at the airport I may think differently.

    The cfo certificate and sticker
    We were completely unaware of , even though we used a visa company at no time were we advised about this,
    I understood it had only recently become law over there, but, now understand that it has been law for some time
    Thank you howerd,
    I wish I had taken advice and joined this site months ago, we live and learn.
    No, she did not have the sticker when she tried to fly out recently, ticket issued,labels attached to bags and on the conveyor, then the immigration cubicle
    And non clearance to leave.
    Such a disappointment
    But easily rectified.

    The information regarding details of staffing levels , catchment area, average monthly visa applications, and working hours, were obtained as an online request from as Keith points out
    The what do they know site
    And please forgive my error
    It was not data protection act,
    But rather
    Freedom of information act.
    I put in two requests on that site about two months apart, each requesting additional information.
    Eventually both were answered and from those answers I did the math and drew my conclusions.
    One of the questions I asked was,
    Was it common practice to stamp
    An applicants passport visa refused
    The answer was a terse
    Yes it is.
    My wife's passport has 4 of these
    And it's almost like you are branded

    I do wish I had come here earlier and taken advice from fellow members,
    But, onward and upward

    Regards
    Steve
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  18. KeithAngel
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    KeithAngel 2063 Lifetime Member

    can you give the links Steve
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