new on site,,,,looking for a female partner

Come on Dom put your matchmaking skills to the test, we'd like a good wedding here at BF

Doms the new Cilla

yes i agree,,but most have kids already i am not into looking aftersomeone elses kids,,,,why on earth do they get into trouble so young

IMO, I feel that a balanced, sane, nice, honest and childless filipina aged 40 is going to be rare as hens teeth..

Well, at least if you look online you can refine your search preferences and hope the girls are honest with you.

I'm like yourself I wouldn't dream of bringing someone else's kids up but as ChoiAndJohn says, it narrows your possibilities down somewhat.

I think you may well have to compromise in the end if you are to be successful in your search.

Timmers is clearly given to understatement. .. The biological clock isn't just ticking at age 40. Its gone into full-on meltdown. Frankly if I met a woman aged 40 or over who didn't have kids, my first reaction would be: why the heck not?

I know a couple of the wife's relations are childless and over forty (never been married) one of whom is her sister but they have both got highly paid jobs in the Middle East and have put their careers/money first, something I tell the wife they will regret in later years.

We all know here that if a Filipino has children then they will be well looked after when the are older and have retired, both emotionally and financially

yep. whilst its for the individual to choose, I personally wouldn't choose a woman who put money or career first to that degree. I believe that I would always wonder whether marriage was just another way of increasing her personal wealth or improving her career options, since she had already sacrificed so much it seems to me that she would be willing to sacrifice almost anything.

And besides, (and I know that this view point may not be a popular one, but as you know I'm never against having a healthy debate), when I personally get home I don't want to find a note on the fridge and my wife out at a conference. That really doesn't do it for me.

I remember reading an article in New York where it was questioned why there was a surplus of single, educated professional women. The answer, it turns out, boiled down to the fact that the professional educated men were tending to choose women who were not high flyers, because they felt that these women would have more time to devote to them, and to bringing up children and keeping a home.

Anyways I know this is a sidetrack. I was tempted to suggest a humorous rewrite to the original post. "Wanted: Childless 40 something filipina. Show up naked. Bring beer. "

But then I thought the better of it, so I won't. ps. Welcome to the forum @BOBWI. Good to see another representative of God's own County here.

I was thinking of the same thing!

I do not want to break the forum rules but were I to recommend the website on which I met my gf. would I be out of order? This website is 100% free .

i met mine off plenty of fish--4 years ago

Met my wife through DateinAsia, 4 years ago.

Not sure if she had this T-shirt then...

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I lost my ex. through the very same place, five and a half years ago. Anyone who wants her is welcome.

I met my gf on christiandatingforfree.com and I said in my original reply it is 100% free.They hound out scammers prety quickly.

I met my now wife because of Super Typhoon Yolanda

I've told this story before but I still like it. I was in Manila for one night. I was having dinner with an old friend when the girl in the avatar walked up to our table, told us we were good looking, and gave me her phone number.

Its all true.

Its also true that she is a talent manager and was recruiting foreign extras for a film.

If u want i will introduce you to my mum

I would love to hear a Filipina talk with a Welsh accent, the wife has a niece who has lived in Scotland most of her life and I just loved listening to her talk in a Scottish accent, it almost seems surreal