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Young people urged to join work experience schemes

Discussion in 'News from the UK, Europe and the rest of the World' started by Timmers, Aug 12, 2015.

  1. knightstrike
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    knightstrike Well-Known Member

    And I am jealous of how bountiful the opportunities in the UK are.

    You have the almighty UK passport, which allows you to travel almost anywhere in the globe. You have jobs, that as long as you have the skills and work ethic, you can go far. You have dole, student loans, Medicare, free housing, etc.

    You only get those here in the Philippines during elections. :lol:

    I can understand now, if what you have said is true, why UK youths are acting that way. Too much of a good thing, hence why they become slothful. Same as in Australia.

    They need the old-fashioned 'palo sa pwet, luluhod sa asin at hindi kakain ng isang araw' to discipline them (though I know it's against the laws and its child abuse in the UK).

    One man's rubbish is another man's treasure.
  2. Anon220806
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    Anon220806 Well-Known Member

    My son is 16. He has just sat his GCSE's. He has 3 choices.

    1) continue in education
    2) quit education altogether
    3) take up a form of apprenticeship with college attendance.

    This has only really just come in. I found out as the day he leaves full time education is the day I am not compelled to pay maintenance.
  3. oss
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    oss Somewhere Staff Member

    Ah 'compelled' was that a problem?

    My eldest daughter is 29, the CSA at the time, yes I hated them and the whole system, but what was/is the problem in supporting your son, was it the CSA or equivalent?

    Yes again I know you can't respond and you might never be able to respond, but by god you posted so much on here that I don't feel guilty about getting a few words in edge wise.

    We avoided the CSA or in your case, I would guess, the more modern equivalent.

    So how much were you paying for your son John, me I was a volunteer, deliberate volunteer in order to avoid the CSA, and even then that was not easy, 18 years at around £500 a month once things had gotten better for me, but had been close to that amount even when times were hard, and then when times were better I increased it substantially through various means, then after her school an additional 4 years direct support for University.

    I have a wonderful lovely good decent grown up daughter who I love with all my heart, I am still friends with her mother a really good woman, I really wish she had accepted my proposal for marriage 30 years ago but she changed her mind three times and that was her choice, you can't force someone to marry you.

    I made a very large investment in my daughter, and I am very glad I did, for me it was a matter of self respect, she was mine was I ever going to walk away?

    So I find your 'compelled' comment strange.

    My biggest fear?

    That I won't be able to do the same for my new family, they deserve the same but might not get it because of my age, this time round has cost me at least three times as much already as I spent on my first daughter and that is despite the lower cost of living in the Philippines, is that a problem, yeah it is, am I complaining, no, I love my children, no matter how their mother behaves.

    They are mine and I will look after them, if I walked away I could never look in a mirror again.
  4. Markham
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    Markham Guest

    A strange choice of words - it's almost as if the writer resents or regrets fathering his children.

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