He was still posting in 2015 this is the last we heard from him http://www.british-filipino.com/ind...sfer-are-they-any-good.5828/page-6#post-69426 I think he got home safely at least I hope so, I guess he is a bit jaundiced regards the Philippines and has probably given up
I agree Andrew, it would be interesting to hear an update from @frank What I liked about this thread is that it has portrayed exactly what can happen in the Philippines, who to trust and who not to trust etc., certainly a must read for any British person with no or little experience of the Philippines venturing into a relationship with a Filipina/Filipino. What I liked about Frank's posts was the fact that he was very candid. Lot of very good information contained within this thread for sure, I hope Frank returned from the Philippines safe and well with money still in his bank account.
If someone sent @frank a PM he would probably receive notification in his email box, prompting him to log in and return to this thread.
Hi again been long time since i been on i am back uk had no one shoot me or threaten me when in Phill. going back phill November again for 6 months . Still on going with that girl i had about the house and land, hired lawyer went see judge she never turned up so we go court now when i return in six weeks. When there gave her another chance but even her mother scammed me. Had two other girls i dated there both turned out no good both cheated on me, one i thought was the one was pregnant within two months of me coming back uk with some other guy, my friends who i stay with told me. I helped both of them financially they just use me again. Will i look for another, i will give it one more go, if i can not find good girl i will give up and just go out and enjoy my holidays there alone. It is still a beautiful country and i have made some real good friends there who i live with in an apartment block. And there friends also have become friends with me and none have asked me for any thing they have give me so much companionship and invited me many times to there humble homes for food
Nice to see you again.!!!!!!!!! But with that woman, You are creating a rod for your own back.. The saga has all the ingredients for draining you mentally and financially... proceed with care. please.
Well Frank, I can say you have seen both the good and the bad of the people of the Philippines, I hope your pockets are deep enough to withstand the financial strain that has been put on you. If I was you I would be looking closer to home for a companion. Main thing is, you're safe and well, good to hear from you again
I think it's wise to be careful but there are good girls to be found in the Phils as many people will testify. Perhaps you might seek an introduction from someone you trust, hopefully to a girl that is religious and has a track record of honesty?
Sorry to hear your story! Despite of bad experiences you had in our country, Im glad to know you still want to come back and face again another challenge. I can assure you, not all women here are the same. As like in any other countries. What you need to do is always use your senses and brain. I hope sooner you will find your right woman. Best of luck Frank!
Good to hear from you Frank and I would like to say how much I admire you for not giving up. You will find the right girl in the end and meanshile have fun looking!
No Aromlus i am not still with that woman i am just suing her through a lawyer to get my house and land back but will never go with her again. I gave her another chance try sort us out went with her buy motorbike her mother told me stay outside with Shema as she would handle it for me i find out later she ask me for 10,000pesos more than what it cost. That did break us up it was the other boyfriend she had i found out so just walked away.
Timmers not going look closer to home, Dont find english woman attractive any more. If i dont find good girl this next time will give up looking and just keep going back and enjoy the philippines 6months Phill 6 months England.
I would not have pursued her for any refunds. I would have, sadly, left it at that, as one has more chances of a cabbage jumping up and biting one's bum than getting any semblance of justice in Philly. In my opinion, you are throwing good money after bad, I would still advise of ceasing all actions and desist from any further... Don't be too eager to find someone............ It will happen when you least expect it.
Roaming It want stop me going phill Shema was just one bad experience the last time i was there, i made many friends two friends who now work for me there and they are the best two people i have ever meet, They introduce me to a girl who they know,she never had boyfriend ever, we go out dating thought she was going be the one, also went visit parents very nice people. Asked her if she would like get engaged when i return this November she said yes. After two months back uk Gloria mail me she is pregnant by her new boyfriend. who no one know she had. It was not mine as i never touch her. So another one use me.
Cant do that aromulus as i paid lawyer one off fee so she will carry on as far as she can and it dont cost me any more even if it just scare shema at least it might stop her doing it to some one else.
Whatever happens you need to pull down the shutters of the bank of Frank and make it clear to everyone that it is permanently shut for business. You are obviously a very caring and generous chap, the lower end of the girls market in the Philippines try to take advantage of this. I sincerely hope you find a girl that is worthy of your affection.
