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is online chatting cheating?

Discussion in 'Relationship Advice' started by 2die4, Oct 19, 2015.

  1. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    :lol: As I typed before, nobody else matters in my marriage, and that includes you.
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  2. ChoiAndJohn
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    ChoiAndJohn Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    I'm not sure which of your edits I like the most. I agree with you. It certainly seems that nobody else matters to you. Fair play to you as I said. :)
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  3. Erica
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    @palmer-25 oh my love :( that's so sad to hear. ...talk to your husband about it, tell him that you saw the pictures, it hurts you and ask him why he's keeping those kinds of pictures when you are already there and he can touched and looked everytime he wants.

    I have to say this to you my love, a man can be contented if he is truly in love with the woman.
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  4. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    A lot of people do, some don't :lol:
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  5. Rob_Jenny
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    Hey there! I think that is pretty normal for men but I'm not generalizing. And it's really true that a woman never fails to know if her man has changed or not even if they keep on denying it, I know in our hearts we know that he's up to something. That's one thing that I don't understand too, if it's just a chat or a friendly chat, why would they hide or even lie about it or be defensive about it right? I think it's normal to them and it's just a big deal to us filipinas coz we're not used to that and I think that's still cheating.
  6. AM2018
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    It’s very difficult to find a honest man! :frust:
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  7. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    It is also difficult to find an honest woman, AM2018...…at least in the west.
    Before I met my wife I used to go out a lot at night and over many years, some of the infidelities I knew about were shocking involving males and females.
    Many women in the west cheat also, and women do it in a much more secretive way.

    I don't know what happens in the Philippines though.
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  8. AM2018
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    I’ve lost my love to my ex and I wish I have done it long time ago whenever I caught him doing stuff that I hate the most and he thinks its okay to keep breaking my heart as I am always willing to forgive him! :frust: in other words he kept back stabbing me! I am honest, loyal and faithful to him but everything has an end. Marriage should be for better or worse not always for worse! :(
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  9. graham59
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    My first Filipina wife cheated on me. :( That ended our marriage. It works both ways. ;)
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  10. Drunken Max
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    Drunken Max Well-Known Member Trusted Member

    Its not difficult to see a relationship going wrong. We just choose not to see it sometimes.
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  11. Omega1965
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    its just a feeling Love, sometimes its complex but most of the time you instinctively know when its real and you make time for your partner.
    if they cant make time for you, maybe you should have a rethink about finding someone who needs your attention???
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  12. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    Unfortunately, people cheat online and progress to doing it in real life.
    The sad thing is that many partners had no idea that the cheating was going on behind their backs so they are the victims.
    Yes, you are right Omega1965, rethinking life's next move is important but some people like being cheated on and abused and don't have the wherewithal or guts to do anything about it. Other people draw a line in the sand, split up and move on. People have choices.
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  13. aposhark
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    Also, many people hang on to their bad marriages hoping things will improve. Perhaps some marriages do but many don't. The other complication is children; "Let's stay together because of the kids":eek:
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  14. Druk1
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    What an enlightening thread :rolleyes: marry In haste repent at leisure, such a truism :)
  15. bigmac
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    Yep. That was my 3rd attempt
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  16. Druk1
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    The old saying is you have to sift a lot of gravel to find a diamond :) I met countless guys in the Philippines meeting their women, getting married etc, I always likened it to running across an unmarked minefield :D a lot of them hadn't initially fallen in love, they had fallen in lust, huge difference. :ninja:
  17. bigmac
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    Absolutely..fallen in lust. Weve had a few on here..madly in love with a video of someone on the internet.
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  18. Druk1
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    I have met hundreds of those guys, blinkered by lust :)
  19. bigmac
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    And they dont realise these married women with kids know all there is to know about the UK immigration rules.
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  20. aposhark
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    aposhark Well-Known Member Lifetime Member

    These things are very complicated, Druk1.
    Problems can arise for anyone....at any time.

    I know people who met and married asap and they're still happy 40+years later
    ......and......
    people who have been married for many years and think all is well are rocked by infidelity.

    "If You've Ever Loved Someone WATCH THIS"

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